Can get over boyfriend , can get over boyfriend” you mutter to yourself. Unfortunately, your new mantra doesn’t seem to be working. Even though he broke up with you and hurt you, you still love him.
As you feel familiar tears forming, you wonder if you will ever get over that man and, right now, your heart feels ripped into pieces.
Does this sound familiar? Have you ever been in love then broke up and felt brokenhearted? You must also remember that yes, you did get over him eventually.
First of all, acknowledge that it is normal to miss someone you spent a lot of time with. You exchanged secrets and you explored new places and feelings together.
Also realize that it will take time to get over him. If you bottle it up, you will feel worse.
Everyone is different so you should release your unhappy feelings however you personally want to. Eat chocolate, cry, visit friends – whatever helps you.
Almost everyone ends a relationship at some point, if it is not working, and people have to move on.
Remember, you can get over boyfriend problems by being strong, whether those problems are a difficult relationship or a whole relationship breakdown.
If a relationship has failed, you are bound to wonder if it was your fault or if you should have done something differently. It is probably a mistake to jump straight into a rebound relationship while still not over the first.
Better is to find some distractions. You might consider some counseling or spend time talking with friends about your feelings. You might take up a new hobby or sport (you can meet new people this way too) or take a holiday.
Personally, I have left one relationship and moved straight into another but it did work for me because the new partner (who I am still with) is much more suitable for me and I am happy.
It was hard walking away from the other long relationship but it was better for me. If your relationship is not working out, you need to view it from all angles.
Perhaps there is someone better for you out there, even if you find it hard to believe right now. If you are still very upset about the break up, it is better to remain single for a while.
This could be a period of two weeks of being single for some women or a year for others. There is no set rule – just go by what feels right. Take your time to heal.
The “CAN get over boyfriend” thoughts might help you, as can believing you are a self-confident, attractive woman who has encountered a temporary glitch.
When you feel ready to move on, you could try online dating or going out with your friends. Just focus on having fun rather than seeking a new relationship. Then, when you do happen to meet someone, things will take their course naturally.
What seems like the end of the world right now is not really and when you find someone new eventually, you can be happy again.
You can turn CAN’T get over boyfriend into CAN get over boyfriend and in years to come, you will look back, be grateful for the times you did share together and realize that you have moved on and become stronger because of what happened.